That Widow

Day 132 and don’t tell me.

I hate when people tell me how something is going to be rather than asking me if it’s ok, or if I would even like whatever it is that they’re talking about. I am an adult and carry myself as such so please treat me that way. I don’t care how old you are or what privilege you think you have but I can assure you none of that matters. If you would like something or would like me to consider something than you may ask for it and not tell me.

I really think this is a dying thing. So May are in a rush to do what they want or what they deem important and forget that others have a choice in the matter. Stop making plans for me that I don’t want, especially right now.

Day 132 and just ask someone if it’s ok.