Tag: trauma

• Day 141

  Day 141 and the lord has nothing on my rings. I think I’m at the point that I have to get my rings resized. When we first got engaged I wore my ring ALL the time, as I’m sure most do, but then learned that wasn’t the best idea for the integrity of my ring.…

  That Widow

  January 2, 2023

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  1 widow, 6 boys, 85 pounds gone, accomplished, affairs, consistency, decisions, earned it, every kiss begins with Kay, exercise, just me, lots of feelings, miss him, Peloton, stacked, surviving, thatwidow, trauma, weight loss, YouTube

• Day 51

  Day 51 and welcome to my Ted talk on trauma and being the best friend I can be. My best friend got divorced last week and her ex husband is on vacation this week with a new girl and they’re wearing wedding bands. She’s crushed and automatically starts on the “what is wrong with me”…

  That Widow

  October 4, 2022

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  1 widow, 6 boys, acknowledgment, closet time, hard truths, hurts, miss him, selfish, suffering, ted talk, thatwidow, trauma

• Day 49

  Day 49 and I wished for my youngest to never grow up so he didn’t have to understand that his dad was gone. I’m both blessed and cursed that only my oldest truly knows what it means that his dad died. Eventually they’ll all know and it will be like a new trauma for them.…

  That Widow

  October 2, 2022

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  1 widow, 6 boys, kids, never grow up, not supposed to be this way, peaceful second, Peter Pan, realizations, thatwidow, the mind, time, trauma, when your mind remembers